Rom. 10:10 – for with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation.
How do you know if someone you know or maybe a new friend that you meet is actually saved? Or even more disturbing, how do you know if you are saved? Many will go back to the answering of the altar call or “praying the prayer” but do those things really tell us of a person’s conversion? Another thing that some may look at as a good indicator of conversion is their behavior. Are they walking in moral purity? Do they dress modestly and behave appropriately around members of the opposite sex? Or do they drink alcohol or use recreational drugs? Do these things really tell us about the true condition of a person’s soul? Maybe, but some people live a pretty clean and moral life without a true born again experience. Maybe their is another indicator we can look at. Maybe it has to do with our affections, the things that we love. Here is how John Piper describes conversion.
“There is a connection between the feelings of the soul and the sensations of the body. This is owing, Jonathan Edwards says, to “the laws of union which the Creator has fixed between the soul and the body.” In other words, heartfelt gratitude can make you cry. Fear of God can make you tremble. The crying and the trembling are in themselves spiritually insignificant. The train can run without them…… Minimizing the importance of transformed feelings makes Christian conversion less supernatural and less radical. It is humanly manageable to make decisions of the will for Christ. No supernatural power is required to pray prayers, sign cards, walk aisles, or even stop sleeping around. Those are good. They just don’t prove that anything spiritual has happened. Christian conversion, on the other hand, is a supernatural, radical thing. The heart is changed. And the evidence of it is not just new decisions, but new affections, new feelings.”
That is it, Christianity is radical and conversion is supernatural. Salvation gets to the very core of our human experience. The new birth changes our heart, the very essence of what makes us tick. When we are truly born of the Spirit we begin to love different things than before. Rather than our lives being dominated by our sensual pleasures of choice we begin to have a passion for spiritual things. A new love for the Bible, gathering together with other Christians for worship and Bible teaching, and spending time in personal worship becomes the passion of our soul. So that’s how you know, have a look at the things you love and you will get a clear indication of the condition of your soul.